Dear Alice,
If your school work is taking over then you should try and make yourself a routine that you will stick to and live around. You could set aside one day of the week or one hour of the day,or more if needed, and dedicate it to doing all your homework tidying your room and getting everything sorted and it will make you feel a lot better and if you get it all finished very quick ,you can arrange to go out with your friends afterwards.
Aunt Betty x